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“Families shape the quality of our lives. Emotional links among family members stretch across households and decades, influencing our outlooks on life, motivations, and strategies for achievement, and styles for coping with adversity. Family relations are the earliest and most enduring social relationships. As a result, family life experiences deeply affect the competence, resilience, and well-being of each of us.” (National)The formative family influence is done from the first days in our life: on our value system, beliefs, understanding of what is right and what is wrong, moral standards, and norms – all these things forms in our first environment – family environment. It is not vainly said that people are the same as their parents: they hereditary the manners, behavior, character features, moral norms, values, traditions, and etc. So, basically you depend on your parents. Of course there are strong personalities who want to be different and lead a different
“An important way to ensure family closeness is by creating special family traditions. While we all know every eats turkey on Thanksgiving, add something special to the day. “(Maureen) Some families also celebrate such events as birthdays, wedding anniversary, christening, school finishing events and others. Such events improve and depolarize the family relationships. Traditions in the family are one of the most valuable things in developing and creating good relationship among family members. Making birthday surprises and presents makes family members feel special and they feel that you do care and not forget about their special day, such things are pleasant to everyone. Such memories are not treasonable and they are kept in mind for a long time.
Roles of members
Long time ago men in the family were responsible for earning for a living for the family good and women taking care for the children and house keeping. Now things and roles have changed. Women are seeking for a career and not anymore staying at home with children. But not all men accept such phenomena; they still think that their wife should stay at home. For example, my mother has not been working for ten years, she stayed at home, took care of children and the house, she was responsible for cooking, doing the rooms, paying the utilities checks and other jobs; but when she started her own business (because she was bored of staying at home and monotony), my father was not satisfied at all. He even today grumble about this new thing - ‘businesswoman at home’ the equal status does not
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